The most common mistake when we begin setting boundaries— especially when People-Pleasing has been a protection mechanism—
is believing that a boundary means telling someone else how they should behave.
Children are taught boundaries.
But between adults, a boundary is not a rule.
It is a recognition of Self-Sovereignty.
A real boundary is not about what the other should do.
It is about the truth of what I will do.
When a boundary is internal, it stops being protection and becomes Integrity.
An external boundary usually appears when there is real danger or a situation that requires care.
Distinguish both.
Honor both.
A boundary does not demand.
It reveals my Truth.
If this Resonates, I offer Private Mentoring for those Ready for Responsibility, not reassurance.
This is about Self-Sovereignty and Authenticity in Relationship—Starting with Yourself. If you feel aligned, reach out.
