The most common mistake when we begin setting boundaries— especially when People-Pleasing has been a protection mechanism—is believing that a boundary means telling someone else how they should behave. Children are taught boundaries. But between adults, a boundary is not a rule.It is a recognition of Self-Sovereignty. A real boundary is not about what the… Continue reading A Boundary is Coherence
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When I release the ties of people-pleasing, my Authenticity is set free
People-pleasing is born from the fear of disconnection.I mistake connection for validation. When I fear losing someone, I lose myself.When I believe the connection depends on me, I abandon myself.When I confuse love with approval, I shrink. Dismantling people-pleasing is simple:I say yes when it’s a yes.I say no when it’s a no.My body remembers… Continue reading When I release the ties of people-pleasing, my Authenticity is set free