On the spiritual path, disidentification —often called “ego death”— is frequently confused with abandonment, rejection, indifference, or renunciation.
In rare cases, leaving the world is a real calling —true renunciation.
I understand this deeply, because I have directly experienced the power of a genuine call from God.
I don’t judge it.
Everyone has their own path.
To experience Truth directly, a complete surrender is required.
But abandonment is not what you think.
Abandonment is nakedness.
Transparency.
No masks.
It is the surrender that returns you to what transcends form—
to who you are beyond the human, beyond the body-mind.
It is when “you” are no longer there.
That’s where identity dies.
The persona.
It is a psychological death: disidentification.
But be careful: this is not about mutilating your humanity.
Dispassion is not numbness.
The transcendent and the mundane are two sides of the same coin — Truth.
When we identify exclusively with one perspective, it can become a prison.
Truth is immeasurable.
In my case, it’s about refinement.
Disidentification + Integration = Refinement.
Leaving nothing out.
Love is inclusive.
Imagine you are a closet.
Your roles or personalities are clothes.
Before, the clothes wore you.
Now, you choose.
You can wear whatever you want, try new outfits, leave others hanging.
You don’t need to reject them.
You’re simply no longer enslaved by them.
Don’t abandon parts of yourself.
Play with them.
Use them.
Without attachment.
Without fixed identity.
I inhabit mine.
Let me offer a few practical examples:
- I can design a logo, a book, or a website for a friend if it feels aligned.
- I can support an entrepreneur in raising their standards or deepening their leadership.
- I can create a business doing what I love, without it being any less spiritual or stealing my depth.
- I can enjoy the comforts of modern life while remaining grateful for the small details of everyday living.
If you can honor simplicity,
you can also honor exuberance.
Non-attachment is not indifference.
It is acceptance.
It is unconditional love.
It is loving more —not less.
If you feel divided,
which parts of you were exiled to become “spiritual”?
In this video i share more about this: The Freedom of Authenticity
